Dealing with a romantic partner who is condescending can be difficult, and painful. When someone is condescending, they talk down to you and act
A person who experiences this type of behavior from their romantic partner suffers mentally and emotionally.
Condescending behaviors in an intimate relationship can cause a pattern of abusive communication, [and] inflict emotional pain for the one who is being talked down to.
A condescending person may not even realize that their behavior is problematic and hurtful. However, their actions and words speak very loudly.
If you have been insulted, treated as an inferior, and made to feel as though your thoughts and feelings don’t matter, it can be unnerving to think about confronting the person responsible.
“The best response to condescension is a direct, even-handed statement about how it makes you feel rather than engaging by being condescending back,” advises Metz.
A relationship therapist can also provide each person with tools to improve the way you and your partner interact with each other so that you can work towards a healthier bond.
Although you and your partner may be dealing with their condescending behavior, you still have to take care of yourself
If your partner makes you feel threatened in any way, or there is any risk of physical violence, you need to get help.
No matter what course of action you decide to take, your health should be the top priority.