Serial Monogamy: Signs and How to Break the Cycle

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Serial monogamy is the practice of moving from one longer-term sexual partner to another.1 A serial monogamist could have lots of relationships that last only a short time or several relationships that last a year or more.

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Causes of Serial Monogamy

Serial monogamy may be due to a variety of issues, from empowering to more worrisome. While some people may consider their ability to leave

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and find another partner a sign of having control over their lives, others may see finding someone new as more of a necessity due to an attachment disorder or mental health issue.

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Equality Between Genders

Economists studying marriage institutions have noted that as females have become wealthier, more serial monogamy is taking place.

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Mental Health Issues

Mental health issues may be to blame for serial monogamy. Disorders, such as borderline personality disorder and narcissistic personality disorder

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which cause a person to require high levels of attention and support, are often to blame.

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Are There Benefits to Serial Monogamy?

In the research literature about serial monogamy, there has been debate about the potential reproductive benefits.

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Harmful Serial Monogamy

Despite the possible healthy consequences of serial monogamy, this pattern of relationships could also be a red flag.

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For example, while the partner is looking forward to the future of the relationship, the serial monogamist will be looking for greener pastures once the newness

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